Sex is important! Through the act we perpetuate the species, our own genetic material, and of course, we have fun. Sex is one of the fundamental impulses of the human mind; ask any publicist or filmmaker whether or not sex sells. Sex is what I like to call an exchange of sensual energy. There are different uses for this energy, just as there are different inclinations and preferences regarding this energy. Using the Destiny Number, also called the Path of Life, we can learn how to best channel this energy to satisfy our sexual needs. The Destiny Number is your date of birth reduced to a single digit. For example, if you were on January 1, 1980, you would proceed: 1+1+1+9+8+0 = 20 and 2 + 0 = 2.

NOTE: Sexual expression is often considered taboo and even those who are ’emancipated’ may have a number of repressions. To better illustrate the point, we will focus on the extremes. Don’t be surprised if you find yourself experiencing a reaction one way or another and keep an open mind, use these suggestions to embody your vibe sexually..

1 Destination: You can be single-minded in the search for your lover. Taken to the extreme, you can see love as a contest and your partners as conquests. Sometimes you are too focused on your own satisfaction and are too dominant, even though your partners find you exciting and willing to experiment. sexual activities: You can channel your energy 1 while on top. Be sure to experience the other end of the 1 spectrum by allowing your partner to travel. Ladies, try red lingerie for an exciting night.

2 Destination: You are a caring lover looking to please in any way you can. You like to kiss, hug and cuddle. In fact, such things are necessary since you need to feel protected and nurtured. In the extreme, you can try to plan things ahead and schedule lovemaking. You can be a bit submissive and follow your partner’s energy very well. sexual activities: Show your partner your willingness to please by showing your body through dance and pleasure yourself for their eyes only. On the other hand, she playfully rejects her lovers’ advances from time to time and learns to enjoy the power that comes with teasing. Ladies should consider shades of orange in lingerie and makeup.

3 Destination: You are an exciting and playful lover with a lot of confidence. This gives you the ability to make your partner comfortable with your playful and lighthearted attitude towards sex. You like different positions and chances are you have a copy of the Kama Sutra on your shelf. You can be so uninhibited that you can make your lover blush! sexual activities: Activities that allow sensual exploration of other parts of the body are ideal, such as sex with the breasts and sex with the feet or toes. Ladies can spice things up with shades of yellow.

4 Destination: Fours can struggle with emotions, especially understanding their partner’s passions. You are slow and steady and may delay making love to build up steam. Relationships are very important and you are extremely loyal and faithful. Your sex life can stagnate if you take an intellectual approach and rely only on tried and true methods to get turned on. sexual activities: Turn off the lights and get under the covers with your lover. Slow, smooth and long. On the other side of the coin, go crazy once in a while. Try making love outdoors. Ladies, green is the color to bring out the sensual side of her to the fullest.

5 Destination: The adventurer! You enjoy variety and excitement. Spontaneity is exciting, as are new places, new jobs, and new people! You are attractive to the opposite sex and need both mental and physical stimulation. You like the ups and downs of passion and stimulation. sexual activities: You may want to eat from a larger menu that includes oral and anal fun, role-playing, and other ‘non-standard’ activities like spanking. Ladies must wear blue underwear and makeup.

6 Destination: Sixes are quite devoted and need to maintain balance and harmony in a relationship. When you find that special person giving in to carnal desires it is a joy. Music, candlelight, and lighting help create that air of romance. Long, very long sessions of foreplay that include a lot of kissing are to your liking. sexual activities: Being kissed and licked all over your body, as well as massages and digital exploration will do you great. Ladies should wear indigo, dark blue, and black.

7 Destination: Dreamy and romantic, you secretly desire a spiritual connection with your lover. You can be a bit aloof and aloof and your analytical nature can produce an almost clinical approach to sex. However, you can potentially achieve levels of intimacy with your lover that are beyond conscious comprehension. sexual activities: Explore things like Tantra and techniques that allow for a more meditative sexual experience. Get rid of that ‘clinical’ disposition and use some dirty words! Ladies, violets and purples will bring out your inner beast.

8 Destination: It’s okay, you’re a weirdo. cold gold. Up or down you are almost totally active or passive. You may be too wrapped up in sexual power politics and wouldn’t mind being in complete control of your partner. Seduce or be seduced. This attitude can alienate others, yet when you commit, you commit completely. sexual activities: Games that allow you to safely explore power relationships such as Bondage and Discipline or Role Playing. Learn to enjoy effusive and overly romantic displays. Ladies, the color pink will help you balance your sexual urges.

9 Destination: You can be so empathetic that you become a doormat. But, you enjoy helping your lover and often put your own needs on the back burner. But when they finally pile up, watch out! Your passion may be volcanic, and your lover may unexpectedly discover that your easy-going nature has become quite demanding. And exciting. sexual activities: Anything that allows for mutual selfless pleasure, like sixty-nine or mutual masturbation. Ladies should try brown, bronze and chocolate colors in makeup and lingerie.

Copyright Jakob Steele 2007